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The process of being matched:

How will I be matched with a child? 
How do children come into the program? 
Who are the children in the program? 

What it’s like to be a Big:

Who are the Bigs in the program? 
When can I see my Little?
How much money should I spend? 
What are some good ideas for outings with my Little? 
Can I bring my spouse/friend/family member on outings?
What kind of support can I expect from BBBS once I get matched?

Donating to Big Brothers Big Sisters:

How do I make a donation to Big Brothers Big Sisters?
How can I donate clothing, toys, books, household goods, a vehicle, or other items? Will Big Brothers Big Sisters pick up my donation?
Where does Big Brothers Big Sisters get its funding from?
How is my donation used? (Where does my money go?)
How do I make a donation in honor or memory of someone, and let them or their family know?
How can I get involved in helping to raise funds for the Big Brothers Big Sisters agency in my community?
Is there a minimum donation?

Bowl for Kids' Sake:

Where can I find information on a Bowl for Kids' Sake event in my area?
How can I participate as a bowler? A sponsor?

General Information:

Where is my local Big Brothers Big Sisters agency? How can I contact them?
How many Hispanic families do you serve?  Do you have a special program to serve Hispanic children?

How will I be matched with a child?

It begins with an enrollment and interview process.  We need to get to know you—your likes, dislikes, your personality, background, where you live and work.  This helps us get a feel for you and figure out what situation  and what child would best suit you.  Would you prefer a Community-Based Mentoring or School-Based Mentoring, for example.  This also gives you the chance to know us and our program.  The final decision to join BBBS is yours.

How do children come into the program?

Children and their parents or guardians may hear about BBBS from a teacher, a counselor, their church, another parent, a friend, commercials, etc. All children and their parents choose to be in our program and we strive to reach the children can benefit from a positive role model in their life.

Who are the children in the program?

Our Littles come from many types of home environments and family structures, different social-economic levels, ethnic backgrounds and neighborhoods and schools across all communities. We have boys and girls in our program. We try to match Bigs with Littles of the same sex and same ethnicity whenever we can—currently African American and Hispanic male volunteers is our greatest need. Our Littles’ backgrounds and personalities are unique, but the thing they all share in common is a need for friendship with a caring adult.

Who are the Bigs in the program?

Our Bigs come from diverse backgrounds just like our Littles. They are regular people, just like you. You don’t need any special degrees or special skills. You just have to want to have a positive impact on a young person in need. What you have or haven’t accomplished isn’t an issue. Role models come in all shapes and sizes, and you could be a perfect fit!

When can I see my Little?

Our Bigs and Littles decide together what they want to do and they get parent approval. We recommend that you keep a consistent schedule of outings and that you see each other on a regular basis. Your local agency will provide you specific guidelines on expected frequency of activities with your Little. Until your relationship is established the outings will also depend on the comfort level of your Little’s parents, your Little and you.

How much money should I spend?

We don’t encourage spending a lot of money on your outings. The goal of the relationship is friendship. You should focus your time on getting to know each other. We encourage you to seek out free or low-cost activities, especially in the beginning. Shoot hoops at local park, play a game together, or share that pizza that you were going to have for lunch anyway. BBBS agencies sometimes often offer group activities that are a great way to meet other Bigs and Littles. You may also receive notices for opportunities for free tickets for your match to attend a variety of cultural and sports activities.

What are some good ideas for outings with my Little?

Share an activity that gives you something in common to talk about. Buy a comic book to read to each other. Play a board game. Hit a bucket of balls at the local driving range. Take a ride in the car with the radio on and talk about the music you like. You want to select activities that give each of you a chance to learn more about one another. For children, playing can be learning. Most important: keep it simple and enjoy yourselves!

Can I bring my spouse/friend/family member on outings?

In the beginning it is important for you and your Little to get to know each other. This can happen best on a one-to-one basis. Over time it is also valuable for your Little to get to know the people who are important to you. Keep in mind that if you’re spending lots of time with others your Little may begin to feel jealous or neglected. Remember that the main focus is the friendship YOU have with your Little. The local agency you work with may also have specific guidelines to assist you.

What kind of support can I expect from BBBS once I get matched?

Once you are matched with your Little, a Match Support Specialist from the agency will be in regular contact with you to provide assistance and give feedback. Anytime you are unsure about what to do or how to handle a situation, you will have a Match Support Specialist there to help. You’ll receive ideas for activities, guidance for handling possible difficult situations, and feedback on how you are making a difference, just by showing up!

You will be joining over 240,000 other volunteers in the BBBS family!

How do I make a donation to Big Brothers Big Sisters?

It's easy to make a donation online! Simply click here to go to the donation form.  To donate by mail, please send check or money order to:

Big Brothers Big Sisters of America
230 N. 13th Street
Philadelphia, PA 19107-1538

How can I donate clothing, toys, books, household goods, a vehicle, or other items? Will Big Brothers Big Sisters pick up my donation?

You will need to contact your local agency to find out if they accept toys, books, and clothing donations.

For vehicle donations, including autos, boats, trailers, motorcycles, etc, please call AdessaImpact at this toll free number:  800-710-9145 or look at more information here.  A synopsis of the process is as follows: when you call, answer the preliminary questions about the vehicle. The info is processed and arrangements are made to pick-up the donated vehicle from the owner. At this point the donor receives a receipt for the vehicle.  The vehicle is transported to an auction house or salvage dealer, whichever is deemed more appropriate. Once the vehicle arrives at auction or salvage, it is processed and sold.  The charity receives the amount of the car less vendor expenses (sales, fees, towing and vendor fees).

Where does Big Brothers Big Sisters get its funding from?

BBBS is a non-profit organization supported by funds from generous donors including individuals, federal, state and local government, foundations and corporations.

How is my donation used? (Where does my money go?)

Your donation will support the BBBS agency serving your community according to your zip code. As a professional mentoring organization, BBBS requires resources to maintain a well trained staff to screen volunteers, make matches, and support relationships between Bigs and Littles -- to achieve the kind of success that shows proven results.  Click here to read more.

How do I make a donation in honor or memory of someone, and let them or their family know?

Please use our online memorial and tribute gift form to make a donation in honor or memorial. You can access this form here.  When you make a gift in someone's honor we will notify the person in whose honor the gift was made and notify you that your request has been fulfilled.  

How can I get involved in helping to raise funds for the Big Brothers Big Sisters agency in my community?

Contact your local BBBS agency and ask to speak with a development officer or Executive Director. They will discuss how you may participate in ongoing fundraising activities or explore new ideas with you.

Is there a minimum donation?

The online minimum donation is $5.  However, it is estimated that each "match" (between a Big and Little) costs one thousand ($1,000) dollar per year to support. Consider a donation of at least $25 to help support and defray the costs for the Bigs and Littles in your area. If you are asked to consider a donation, please keep in mind the true costs of helping. Your gift is greatly appreciated and your support is generously welcome.

Where can I find information on a Bowl for Kids' Sake event in my area?

For the most current information about a Bowl for Kids' Sake campaign event, contact your local agency.  For general information about Bowl for Kids' Sake, click here.

How can I participate as a bowler? A sponsor?

Contact your local agency to find out how you can participate. Each Bowl for Kids' Sake is unique. In some cases you can register to be a Bowler online, in others, they may need you to help as a Team Captain, a bowler, or even as a volunteer helping to manage the event. The best way to find out how to participate is to contact your local agency.  Read more about Bowl For Kids' Sake.

A sponsor is someone who donates to a Bowl for Kids' Sake bowler. To be a sponsor, donate to a bowler. To find a Bowl for Kids' Sake in your area, contact your local agency.

Where is my local Big Brothers Big Sisters agency? How can I contact them?

Find your local agency by clicking here.

How many Hispanic families do you serve?  Do you have a special program to serve Hispanic children?

A significant number of our Little Brothers and Little Sisters are Hispanic.  Our Hispanic “Littles” not only need guidance and friendship as do all children, they could reap incredible rewards from the mentorship of a caring adult with a shared heritage.  Our Hispanic Mentoring Network strives to serve the country’s growing Hispanic children and their families.  We have Spanish-speaking staff members that are in-tune with the cultural nuances of the multi-faceted Hispanic community.  For more information on the Hispanic Mentoring Network, please call 215-665-7742.

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